Help, My Child Won’t Eat Breakfast!
We all know how important breakfast is for kids.
But if you’re like me and have a little one who refuses to eat breakfast, you know that kids don’t really care!
So, what can you do??
My four-year-old is not a morning person.
He usually wakes up grumpy, even when he’s had a good sleep, and it’s literally anyone’s guess what his gripe with the world is going to be on any given day.
And despite his many complaints about all the things he’s not happy about, one of the main causes of his grumpiness seems to be that he’s hungry (or hangry to be more specific!).
But, what should be an easy fix (i.e. food) is complicated by the fact that he has zero interest in breakfast.
It usually takes a good hour or two for him to actually start taking ANY interest in food, which is fine, except by that stage he’s already at daycare or swimming lessons or whatever else we have on that morning.
So, over time I’ve come up with a couple of little tricks to get him eating at least something. And by that, I mean at least something healthy (I’m sure he’d have no issue eating breakfast if I offered up chocolate cake…).
But first, a quick word on breakfast itself…
I’m not generally of the opinion that breakfast is the be-all-and-end-all. I think for most adults it’s fine to wait until you feel hungry to eat. But when it comes to kids, the old saying ‘breakfast is the most important meal of the day’ is a lot more accurate.
Kids need plenty of nutrients to support their rapidly growing bodies, and so every meal and snack is an opportunity to get these nutrients in. We also want to keep blood sugar levels steady so that they can concentrate, have plenty of energy throughout the day, and be less likely to succumb to hangry meltdowns.
And, as a lot of young children aren’t great eaters at dinnertime, by the time morning rolls around, it may have been quite a long time since they ate anything substantial!
My tips for encouraging non-breakfast lovers to eat breakfast:
Deal with the ‘hangriness’ first
In my son’s case, my first step is to make sure he isn’t over-hungry (/hangry). If he is, then I can barely reason with him, let alone entice him to eat breakfast.
If he’s got to that point, I give him a small amount of dried fruit or something he’ll happily eat to get his blood sugars back up a little so we can start talking about breakfast. It usually takes about 5 minutes until I can see an obvious change in his mood.Offer a choice
Toddlers and young children love to feel that they’re in control. And while we can’t give them full control over what’s on offer at breakfast (cue the chocolate cake!), letting them choose between a few options can make a big difference to their willingness to eat.
I’ve found the most fun way to do this with my son is to give him a breakfast menu to choose from (with a little help as he can’t read yet). He loves to pretend he’s at a restaurant giving his order to the chef (me).
Grab my free Breakfast Menu Printable here.Try a Liquid Breakfast
Another handy way around the breakfast dilemma is to go for a liquid breakfast instead. A lot of kids will happily drink a smoothie first thing in the morning rather than actually eating something.
As far as I’m concerned, this is absolutely fine as a smoothie can easily contain the nutrients a good breakfast should have - carbohydrates, protein, calcium, and a little iron.Get my Breakfast Smoothie Recipe here
I hope these tips help you if you’ve also got a non-breakfast lover. Remember, it doesn’t have to be perfect!